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An Extract of "Life of Love" (2020) - by Rounak
Most single guys are confused between career and love? because they fear "If they love in college days, it will spoil their career " .
This is a common misconception that is being sold by Society Constantly, " if you love in college days, you will certainly fail in career and if you focus only on career, you will succeed with girls and love later in your life.
Of course many times, even your parents have told you, even your teachers have told you what most of them and any single guy with this mindset don't know is , Succeeding in career don't guarantee happy love life or your dream girl automatically.
I will tell you, why and what will happen when you succeed in your career ?
Suppose you employed in one of your dream companies, what you don't know is you will have to do many things, sometimes you have to work more to impress your boss, sometimes you have to work more to get promoted, sometimes you have to work more to get bonus, sometimes you have to work hard till morning to late night to meet project deadline, sometimes you don't even find time to think about girls or love, they expect you to do many things at the same times and they call it multi tasking. you wait months and years to find your dream girl you want if you are lucky enough, perhaps you will find one.
But the worst thing that you will realize, if you don't know how to attract a girl, your damn career is not going to help you. because, if just succeeding in career will make girls love you, it is even a bad news.
perhaps no girl should love and stay with you as there are many guys out there who are core and core successful than you.
like your managers or your bosses.
The girl will get attracted to guys who know how to trigger attraction in them, Not to guys who are just successful in career.
"because attraction isn't a choice "
"Attraction is not trigger in a logical process, attraction will trigger in an emotional manner" .
then you will realize, if you want to attract a girl, then you either have to learn how to attract girls or settle with whomever you got. Not a good idea!
yet millions of single guys live with this mind sets.
My points is why the hell in the world's, you have to sacrifices one for another, why can't you manage both?
Once you became successful in career, you damn have to do manage many things at the same time.
why can't you start managing both the things from your college days. who told you to spend 24 hours only thinking about love or girls? who told you not to focus on your studies or career? perhaps, you got this stupid idea by society.
Learn to lead your love ; you will lead your career as well.
starting today, spend some time for your career and spend some time on love or girls.
Don't neglect one for another.
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